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Sunday, September 21, 2008

MACK SAYS: 1

Alright! Here is the first "batch" of questions and answers. :] Hope it helped- if you need anything don't be afraid to ask.


Ex trouble:
Hi, I have a question.
I had a boyfriend a year ago and we broke up like after 1 month of going out, and one of my friends went to homecoming this year with him, which is how I got together with him exaclty one year ago. & they were like making out right next to me, and she didn't even ask me if it was okay to go out with him, like my other friend did. is it wrong for me to be upset?

Mack Says:
I think that first you need to confront your friend and let her know that you're feeling a bit betrayed by her going with your ex boyfriend. But understand that you didn't have a very long relationship and your friend might have mis-understood how you felt seeing as another one of your friends has dated him. Its always normal to have some sort of attatchment to old love interests- and making out right in front of you probably isn't the nicest thing to do, but at some point you've got to let him go and see that he is going to date other girls and in this case your friends. Honesty is the best policy here, and it will make you feel a lot better getting your feelings off your chest.
xox

Party time:
so... i have a boyfriend, and ive been with him for about a year now, anyways last weekend i was at some party and ended up hooking up with two guys at the same time..

is that something i should talk to him about..

Mack Says:
YES! You should certainly tell him about this, especially if you plan on staying with him. Trust and honesty are the two key foundations to every relationship. Put yourself in his shoes, if he did this to you- would you want to know? And if you're planning on getting with other guys, you might want to consider being single. All the fun with no strings attached.
xox

Face Talk:
hey! i was wondering what type of makeup and skin products do you use? you always looked flawless at school!

Mack Says:
I use neutrogina to moisturize and cleanse- and i use MAC make up for just about everything else! (Studio Fix, Bronzer, Tinted moisturizer)
xox

Lonley Boy:
hi
i havent able to get a girl friend since 10th grade
and now im freshman in college
why do you think that is?

Mack Says:
Maybe you haven't found the right girl! I don't really know your full situation, but you should just be yourself. Be sweet and honest with the girls you have an interest in. Make sure you're taking chances and asking girls out- what do you have to loose? The very worst thing thats going to happen here, she'll say no. So you pick up and move on to the next girl. Relationships are hard and it seems like in college a lot of times girls aren't looking to "settle" down. Go to social events, get to know different people and just have a good time- you're bound to come across the right one soon enough.
xox

Flakes R US:
okay well i really really like this guy and he tells me that he likes me too but he never shows it or anything. & whenever we plan to hang out he always has someway to get out of it.. i don't know what to do about him. I don't want to let him go cause i've always liked him but i don't know if i should talk to him or anything.

Mack Says:
Flakey people are the WORST, and there isn't much you can do to change that about him. Maybe he does really like you, and thats great- but why would you want to waste time with a person that doesn't make time for you? I think honesty is always the best thing, maybe its just a misunderstanding. He might not know how you're feeling or even realize that hes ditching you: let him know how you feel. If you do this and things keep happening maybe hes not the right guy for you. You can't change people and you can't force them to hang out. You deserve a guy who is going to make time for you and who is going to make you feel like a princess.
xox

1 comment:

mhwordell. said...

Mine didn't make it!>?!?!

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