Hey guys, I'm Mackenzie. I've created this blog at a turning point in my life. I've decided to use this "space" to blog about my new life experiences. Seeing as its my first time moving away from home- and also going out there to pursue my dreams i figured i'd be doing a lot of new stuff. I've also created this as a sort of .. "advice" spot. I've found that i'm the type of person that is always looking to help my friends and give insight to those who ask, so what better way to help people than to have a blog dedicated to answering any questions you have. hence the title "GIRL T@LK" and when i say questions i mean anything- boys,girls, make up, hair, clothes, family, friends- you name it and i'll do my very best to help. so- you can ask questions in my comments or send me and email asking anything
you can send them here
askmack.girltalk@yahoo.com
if you choose to email me i'll keep it anonymous but i'd love to hear from you!
I'll try posting questions and answers as often as possible in my blog.
and if you want to talk over myspace-
http://www.myspace.com/100m
talk to you soon.
xox
Mackenzie
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Hi, I have a question.
I had a boyfriend a year ago and we broke up like after 1 month of going out, and one of my friends went to homecoming this year with him, which is how I got together with him exaclty one year ago. & they were like making out right next to me, and she didn't even ask me if it was okay to go out with him, like my other friend did. is it wrong for me to be upset?
so... i have a boyfriend, and ive been with him for about a year now, anyways last weekend i was at some party and ended up hooking up with two guys at the same time..
is that something i should talk to him about..
hey! i was wondering what type of makeup and skin products do you use? you always looked flawless at school!
hi
i havent able to get a girl friend since 10th grade
and now im freshman in college
why do you think that is
okay well i really really like this guy and he tells me that he likes me too but he never shows it or anything. & whenever we plan to hang out he always has someway to get out of it.. i don't know what to do about him. I don't want to let him go cause i've always liked him but i don't know if i should talk to him or anything.
I'm dating you and uhhh.... what should I do about that?
okay so there's this guy that I've "been" with for over a year. we've been on and off a lot, but for the past few months we've really seem to hit it off. We'll for the past, about two weeks, we usually talk (via text/phone) because he lives far away, but recently we randomly just stop talking. At first I said something about it to him or got mad, now I wanted to see how long it would take for him to actually say something to me for the first time. Well it's been almost a week and i don't know if i should continue my cold shoulder and wait for him to come to me, or ask him what his probelm has been =/
so i there is this boy that i think is real cute and i want him to ask me to homecoming but i dont think he has any idea that i think he's cute. plus i used to have a thing with one of his best friends so i dont know if im 'off limits' to him or what.. what should i do?
okay, so I've been off and on with this boy for a year and a half now, but we've never dated before. i love absolutely everything about him, and i adore him to death. We're finally dating, and things couldn't be better and i couldn't ask for more. But, he's only said "i love you" to one girl, and it was his best friend. i've loved before, and the way i feel about him is more than the past boy. Do i tell him and risk him not saying it back, or wait for him to say it? I just don't want to rush it, ya know?
Okay, So i like this guy & we dated last year in october and we have always had a thing going on. Well recently in March we started to really get together and like each other again. Well he has been ignoring me but he told me he likes me but doesnt want a relationship right now & im fine with that. But i hate not having the attention that i use to get from him. I really like him...what do i do? Do i tell him that i hate that we arent the same or do i just keep going with everything and appreciate the attention i get or what.....
so, i have been dating this guy, for a little over two months. we tell each other that we love one another, and talk about getting married and having children and all that other really serious stuff together. recently, he told me things have been moving too fast and that he wants things to slow down. he also told me that he loves me more than anything, and he thinks he is just afraid of being hurt again, so he wants to slow things down a bit. i took that as, we might be breaking up soon, but he says thats not at all what he wants. what should i so about the whole thing? and by the way, your awesome for doing this whole advice things. :]
hi, sooo i have been dating this guy for exactly a year. im a senior in high school and everything is perfect. ive liked him since the summer going into my sophomore year..but during my sophomore year he dated my best best friend for about 2 months. about a year after they broke up, she told me i never gave her the chance to get over him.. which there was almost an entire year in between her dating him, and me dating him. and during that time she had about 2 or 3 other boyfriends... basically she told me she still had feeligns for him a year later. he never talks to her or anything.. but her and i arent friend at all anymore. i just want an outsiders opinion about this. a lot of people just think im a bitch for dating one of my best friends exs.. but techincally i likd him first.. haha
i don't really know where to start, but things have changed a lot in my life this passed year. Im not close with two of the people i spent every minute with for quite sometime. And at first i thought i was okay and i'd meet new people. but it hasn't been as easy as i thought and i don't really want to meet new people.
I feel like i can't even be myself anymore around anyone and like i lost the girl i was. Over summer i became really quiet and to myself. I never used to be this way or worry about things. and now i feel like i CONSTANTlY worry. Im scared to go do things with people and having it be awkard cause i can't be myself and be outgoing. i just worry about what their thinking and it's really getting to me.
idk if there's anything to help?!
okay so ive been dating my boyfriend for a couple of months now. things are going great and i really think hes the one. he tells me everyday hes gunna marry me and i dont think he would lie about that. but i am planning on moving out soon and i really dont wanna have a roommate, i'd like to experience living on my own. but once my boyfriend can move out of his apartment hes in now we've been debating on whether we would move in with eachother. hes the only person i would wanna live with but im afraid this could ruin our relationship if we live together before we're married. what do you think?
Hi Mackenzie.
I wanted a to ask for some of your guidance on an issue that's been bothering me for almost a year. Hahah, yes, almost a whole year. So I have the biggest crush on my guy best friend. I never had a guy or a friend who cared or made me laugh as much as he does. But I have my doubts that he doesn't feel the same way as I do about him. But to make matters worse, he has a girlfriend :/
I don't know what to do. It makes me jealous knowing when he's with her and it's killin' me knowing how much I really like him. I want to tell him, but I don't want to destroy our friendship and the friendship I have with his girlfriend. What should I do?
hey, this is kinda weird doing this because i never do this kinda thing but i totally have no idea what im supposed to do, so i figure asking someone who has no idea who i am will maybe help me out a little. anyways, my friend introduced me to this guy about two months ago and im pretty sure that i fell in love with him at first sight.. we started talking and hanging out, and everything was perfectly fine. he told me he was leaving for college soon, which was two hours away.. and im a senior in high school, so i was kinda worried but he made it clear to me he really liked me and that'd we continue to talk.. he was supposed to come home labor day weekend and he never called to tell me he wasnt comming, and he never called to say he was home.. and he ended up not comming home at all. i was beggining to get frustrated because he never called me anymore although i tried not to let it show because he was busy with school, and his friends and hes big on working out. well, we started to fight and one day he flipped out on me and he hasnt called since.. ive called him multiple times, left voicemails and tried to text him my feelings but ive gotten no response for two weeks. im worried i just totally let this kid take advantage of me, i dont know what to do to get over him.. and im just all around hurt. hes supposed to come home october 18th and i wish i could somehow talk to him but i dont know what to do. help ?
oh boy so this is a little bit of a long story but im hoping you can help...
I have known this boy for like two years, and starting last march we were talking everyday ALL day through txt. i learned so much about him its crazy. we started hanging out, and of course all the feelings followed. We then began to be official, and we spent all summer together, i enjoyed every moment, and learned so much, i have a new look on life, he helped open my eyes. anyways so come august time he decided that we needed to be done due to the fact that he is leaving for 6 months up to a year or most likely longer. it was so hard to hear even tho i know he was right in ending it now. he told me that if he stayed with me he wouldnt leave and wouldnt want to go, and if he did leave he would spend his times missing me and he didnt want that, he has been planning this trip for a long long time, one of his dreams and something he feels he has to do. who am i to interfer? Its just really really really hard. and he also told me that he wants me and that he fell for me but isnt going to pursue what he wants and that he thinks its best before he falls in love. its so frustrating.so i finally told him i couldnt talk anymore because it was too hard for me, and he flipped out on me.ugh. anyways the point to this story is to ask you how i can get over this and move on?? not to mention his very best friend whom is my best friend has finally come out with how he feels for me, and that he is crazy for me. great. im not sure whether to risk our friendship to see where it could go, especially when im not over his best friend. what should i do? and one last thing the best friends roommate who is also my ex's best friend too has been talking to me everyday and getting to know me. i kinda like getting to know him as well, bad idea huh? since he is both the two guys best friend and roommate. oh boy what a mess. maybe it could officially help me move on...
Hey Mackenzie,
I'm a senior in high school and I don't know what it is but I'm not really interested in any of the functions going on at my school or doing any "typical" high schooler type things. I never really feel like I'm myself with my usually crowd that I always hang out with. One of my good friends recently got involved with drugs and I just let her know that it really bothered me and that I couldn't be her friend anymore if that was all she was going to talk about. I feel bad and with my group of friends, I've suffered socially for this. I'm just not really interested in drinking or anything like that and I honestly feel like I'm judged for it everyday just because I used to do it to fit in. I really just want these next 8 months to rush by so I can go to college and never have to be around any of these people again. Is something wrong with me? cause most days I feel like there is.
Where do you buy your clothes? & how do you stay so skinny?
i really want to lose weight, and i don't know how. it's so hard! i want to know how you stay thin and what you think the best way to lose weight is? i don't have a gym memership and i can't afford one so that doesn't work. i want to lose like 10-15 pounds fast. I hate my arms and i just need your advice and help.
so you always have really cute clothes and shoes, and i was just wondering where you get them from? cause you always look amazingly stunning, and im always really jealous hahaha
in your i love you idaho picture on myspace, where did you get that dress! and do you really want to leave idaho? is your boyfriend going with you to?
okay so i have a problem.
i really like this guy and whenever we're together its so amazing but we very rarely hang out and after we do he always acts all weird and doesn't really talk to me. Everyone tells me its just because he's using me but i really don't think he is. I'm not sure if i should confront him about it or not because everytime i do he gets all mad and defensive.
help!
how much to do you weight?
cause i your so tiny.
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