GIRL T@LK:8<3

Currently listening to: Does it offend you, yeah?
Okay here is the 8th issue of Girl T@LK! and i'm excited.
Cali has been depressing but whateverr. i've made some new friends and its really nice. I guess i'm going to a Li Cari event and i'm excited about that too, i'll post pictures if i get any sweet ones later. anyway on to your questions, i love you guys !
PS- I'm in such a sassy mood tonight, so if anything i say comes off as harsh or insensitive i apologize but its how i'm feeling. So if you can't stand the heat get outta the kitchen. PS maybe take a glance at other GIRL T@LKS before you ask stuff, i get lots and lots the same questions. oh well still love you. and keep sending stuff
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xo

Boys boys boys:
So recently the guy i was in love with decided to just start ignoring me. Now me and him have been going on and off for about 3 years and the reason i kept on giving him chances and he kept giving me chances was because we both loved each other. But now..it seems its all turned over. His friends dont really like me for some reason and thats kind of been a problem also. We went out about 5 weeks ago for like a week and we broke up because he wouldnt act like we were going out at school. But of course after that he apoligized and i still gave him another chance. But about 2 weeks after that he just stopped talking to me..wouldnt reply to my texts, calls, nothing. So tahts when i started breaking down..i mean this was the guy i loved just leaving me. So for about a week after that i was miserable. I decided to call him and ask him why he's been doing this and he said that he didnt even have a reason for ignoring me. So i dont know what to think anymore. We arent talking anymore but i still just want to know why he's been doing this. I have to get over him. But its just so hard. I loved him so much and he hurt me so bad but i still cant get over him. I would do anything just to even be friends with him but it just seems like its not worth it anymore.

Mack Says:
Well, i didn't see much of a question here- so i'll give you my insight. First off, when you love someone you don't ignore them, you're not swayed by peer pressure or childish impulses like pretending you're not dating. He is obviously immature and needs to grow up a little. I know this all sounds harsh, but its the truth. Yeah, i understand you really cared about him, but wtf is his problem? Don't let a guy play games with you like that, his chances are up and there isn't any reason to go back to that BS. Be a strong, self respecting girl and find a guy that can dig that. There are plenty out there.

Burn in hell?:
So pretty much.. I know I did something wrong. Long story short was that about a year ago I met this guy. We talked and what not. We met through a friend which i met online. I know sounds cheesy but I was starting to really like this guy. And He started to like me too. He actually thought I was someone else. The year went by and we called me his girlfriend. and Yeah it was pretty much a online relationship. Little did he know I was i live in the same stated and city as him. But he thought something else. But anyways I kept the secret from him for about a year! and Then I couldnt take it anymore and i finally told him the truth. At first he was like I just show yourself I love you no matter what. That was all a lie cause when i was walking down the street to go see him. He just laughed and drove off. Yeah I know i did soemthing very wrong. But i couldnt help it. They way he made me feel. Last words he said to me were I hope you get hit by a bus and burn to hell. I know he doenst mean that its just out of anger. But its been two months since that all happen. And im trying so hard to get over him and its not working there isnt a day that goes by that i dont think of him. I dont know if i should just tell him who i really am. And have my life hated and make my high school experience done with. Or what. Im lost. Confuse. I want him back. I think i lost my chance becasue all the times he ran after me and the one time i had to run after him i didnt..

Mack Says:
I think you've answered your own question. You know in your heart what the right thing to do is- so i suggest you do it. Why are you so afraid of him seeing you? I mean unless you used some fake photos or something, he knows what you look like. See him in person, an internet relationship is a little strange and i would assume not very satisfying. If he is half the man he says he is, he will care for you exactly the same. If he doesn't, then he is not worth it. He clearly cares and really wants to meet you in person, so why not give it a shot? Where are things going to go if you don't? You have nothing to lose.

Michael Cera?:
Ok so I have been friends with this guy for a year or so now and he's just a great guy friend. He'd always get excited to see me and talk to me at school and outside of school and I'd go see his his little indie band play... that's actually how we became friends because he played at a venue I work at. He's fun and I love his personality and taste in music. I think he liked me for a while and I had a boyfriend over the summer so we didn't really talk much. But now since school started we've been talking like usual and I broke up with my boyfriend like a couple weeks ago but I don't know if he knows? and he was talking about this other girl who goes to our school... so I'm guessing he likes her, but you know when it hits you that you really like someone? well... that happened to me, even though I always have a little bit. I compare him to my ex's and he's so much better. we have the same sense of humor (which is a biggie for me...) and he's cute and I
love how he's akward but it's funny... idk how to explain it. He plays like every instrument and has a passion for music and I love it. He's like a cute indie boy... haha. anyways. For the past couple weeks he hasn't really even said hi to me in the halls and he doesn't come up and talk to me anymore and act cute and the way I love... I don't know what's wrong and I don't think I did anything? It just makes me really upset because I miss him so much and it's made my last couple weeks kinda sad because I don't want to lose him as a friend... and I like him and I'm so bad with timing... like I wasted my time with my ex when he was there infront of me the whole time and I think he's moved on... but why is he not talking to me now? I don't know what's wrong it's just not the same... and I don't know what to do... because I don't see him now to stop him and talk to him... I just want to know why it's changed all of a sudden.

Mack Says:
As you can see from the title, thats how i'm picturing this guy and i don't know why. But on to the point- you like this guy... so go for him. Seriously! He is probably just feeling conflicted, tell him you and your bf broke up- that you are madly in love with him (maybe not those exact words..) and get on with it. I don't think hes going to reject you, you've had a history and are great friends. Just step outside of your box and say hi to him, let him know that you care. That will go a long way. Follow your heart, and be 100% honest, that is the best thing i can think of.

Older Men:
please help!

my boyfriend is two years older than i am.
we've been dating for almost 9 months now.
well, he'll be graduating this year, but i'll still have two more years of high school left.
i'm worried about how things will be once he graduates.
i'm worried we wont see each other as much,
and that things wont end up working out.

how did you and your boyfriend make it work?

Mack Says:
Well, every relationship is different. I've answered quite a few questions close to this one. I think its always nice to see that other people are in the same boat as us, i would recommend looking at some past GIRL T@LKS too. Anyway, you've got 2 more years period. There isn't anything you can do to change that (except graduate early... which is not smart every girl i know that has done that loses their friends and is way too obsessed with their bfs) ANYWAY. Enjoy highschool, its the only time you'll ever EVER have it. You think you hate it, but then you get out and move away- you will miss it- at least a little. Its such an easy time in live (no matter what any highschooler thinks now) so yeah, don't worry about the future so much. What is going to happen, will happen regardless of your efforts. My advice, have a strong caring honest loving true REAL relationship and you'll be fine. 2 years is a while, so sit tight and enjoy the ride.

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